How many of us have secret dreams and desires but never get to realize them or maybe not to the extent they had hoped. I think that sums up about any human being on this earth. For me, it involves being able to work at a job I can't wait to jump out of bed to do, writing a book, financial freedom, and finding that "perfect" man who will love me for who I am through the good, the bad and the ugly might be a good starter list.
Each time I go through a difficult time, it seems I am forced to have to really take a hard look at what got me where in that situation. Sometimes I could have made different choices and the outcome would not has been so hard to deal with and other times I couldn't control the events from happening, but maybe how I reacted to them might have helped me get through those times with a little less difficulty.
For me, I like to try to find ways to control my surroundings to avoid that unpredictability that throws us for a loop now and again. It doesn't keep things from happening, and sometimes it might keep me from experiencing other more joyful things in life. Some people have the personality type that things will work out and just let things happen and for the most part I guess it does. They seem happy enough but I'm not sure I could ever just have that amount of faith. There are always reasons behind the way we think and do what we do. Another day I will post on my perspectives for why I think I am the way I am.
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